ADHD Task Paralysis: the universal ADHD struggle in which your attention deficit symptoms work together in a rudely concerted effort to keep you unmotivated, overwhelmed, unable to get started, and/or all together stuck. I don’t know about you, but it’s been the bane of my existence for as long as I can remember. For many […]
Mind Care
Ultimate ADHD in Women Checklist with Real Life Examples
All the ADHD in women checklists give far too dry lists of symptoms that don’t do the reality of actually living with ADHD much justice. When I first read the symptoms, I didn’t think I met the criteria for ADHD any better than anyone else. It wasn’t until I started digging into what each of […]
Cleaning with ADHD: The Ultimate Guide to Every Pitfall
Cleaning with ADHD is a necessary evil most of us ADHDers avoid as long as we can. We’re known for mess and for good reason: the ADHD mind is a chaotic, disorganized place and it’s reflected in our outer worlds. Getting our living space tidy and organized is often about as hard as getting our […]
ADHD Masking: Real-Life Examples, Costs, & How to Unmask
ADHD masking is a hot topic these days, and for good reason. After a lifetime of cultivating ways to hide your challenges, it’s validating to finally understand why you’ve struggled, all the ways you’ve hidden it, and the extent to which you’ve internalized these camouflages without even realizing it. These masks help us see just […]
11 Fascinating Differences in How a Person with ADHD Thinks
Considering the way a person with ADHD functions in the world is different, it should come as no surprise that how a person with ADHD thinks is different as well. And not just in the rapid-fire speed of thought we’re known for. The uniqueness of an ADHD mind goes much deeper than that, infiltrating the […]
When You think it’s Anxiety but it’s Really ADHD
For 28 years, I thought I had anxiety. Turns out, it was ADHD. Unfortunately, misdiagnosis is the same for millions of women. For us, ADHD looks just different enough to throw most people off the scent. Forgetful? Overwhelmed? Distracted? Can’t get yourself to do things you need to do? You sound anxious. You sound depressed. […]
What You Need to Know About Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria
If you’ve ever over-thought a conversation with a friend until you literally had a meltdown, you might have Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria. If you’ve ever been overtaken with irrational anger because of critical feedback from your boss, you might have Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria. Truth is, RSD is really common in those of us with ADHD. Like, […]
ADHD and Emotions: The Hidden Link You Need to Know NOW
In my experience as a therapist, it seems most people are still unaware of the link between ADHD and emotions. And even the people who are aware of ADHD’s impact on our emotional wellbeing, usually only those of us living with, have large gaps in their knowledge of the topic. Those gaps make it harder […]
The Best Freaking ADHD Memes on the Internet
ADHD is a struggle. Well, more like a series of struggles all sabotaging you at once and if you don’t laugh, you might cry. We can’t have that—not for this post, anyway. These ADHD memes will help you find the humor in the midst of ADHD frustration. They are, after all, the best freaking ones […]
5 Things Every ADHDer Desperately Needs to Know
As a clinician that treats ADHD, and fellow neurodivergent brain, I’ve thought a lot about the things every ADHDer needs to hear. Things beyond the practical tips and tricks. Those are super helpful, don’t get me wrong; we definitely need those, too. But most of us have internalized lies about our struggles, we’ve been told […]